Silent Waters Therapeutic Services, LLC

What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session: A Glimpse of Light


At Silent Waters Therapeutic Services, we know the first step into therapy can feel overwhelming. For many, life has become clouded by grief, anxiety, or frustration. The “black cloud” may feel so thick that you can’t remember the last time you saw something good or felt a moment of relief.

That’s why people are often surprised by what happens in their very first session.


A Shift You Might Not Expect

Clients sometimes describe being shocked when, in the middle of sharing their struggles, they notice something different. The haze begins to lift just a little. For the first time in a while, they might see a small glimmer of good. It may be something tiny: a moment of gratitude, a memory worth holding onto, or even a smile that sneaks in when they least expect it.

Some are surprised to find themselves laughing. At first, it can even feel uncomfortable - How can I laugh when I’m going through something so difficult? But that moment doesn’t erase the pain; it shows that hope and light can exist right alongside it. And that realization often stirs curiosity: If I could smile once, maybe I can again.


Why This Matters

Therapy isn’t about rushing your story or pushing you to set goals before you’re ready. Those things will come at your pace. What matters first is that you feel seen, not as “just another client,” but as yourself - unique, worthy, and valued.

Every therapist has different strengths. One of the ways I walk with clients is by helping them discover gratitude and light in the middle of what feels like mud. Not by minimizing the pain, but by holding space for both the struggle and the small sparks of joy that remind us life still has goodness in it.


You Matter Here

If you’ve been feeling lost in the darkness, your first session can be the beginning of something different. Not because everything is instantly solved, but because you’ll discover that you are capable of noticing good even in small doses. A moment of laughter, a hint of gratitude, or a glimpse of light is often the first step toward healing.

And perhaps most importantly, you matter here. Even to someone you’ve just met, your story, your presence, and your life carry value. My hope is that in our first session, you’ll feel not only understood, but also cared for, and maybe even surprised by what becomes possible when you let light in again.


Final Encouragement
Your first therapy session isn’t about perfection, it’s about beginning. Even in the middle of loss, pain, or frustration, it’s possible to find something worth holding onto. And once you see it, no matter how small, it can change everything.

If you’re considering starting therapy, Silent Waters Therapeutic Services would be honored to walk alongside you. I invite you to reach out today to schedule your first session. I look forward to meeting you and helping you discover the light that is still possible in your life.


August 19, 2025

By Joseph Montalvo


📍 Serving Connecticut and surrounding communities
📞  Call or message us today to schedule your first session

Back-to-School Stress: What Parents Should Know

By Joseph Montalvo • September 8, 2025
Back-to-School Stress: What Parents Should Know  For many children, the transition from summer break back into the school year is a bigger challenge than we realize. While parents often focus on backpacks, supplies, and schedules, the emotional and physical impact of this shift can quietly build stress in a child’s life. The Hidden Losses of Summer Summer isn’t just about fun—it’s also a season of family rhythms and freedom. Children may grieve the loss of: Family bonding time such as shared breakfasts or late evenings with parents. Casual face-to-face interactions with friends, neighbors, or relatives. Personal space and freedom , which quickly shrink when classrooms replace backyards. A Sensory and Biological Shock School re-entry doesn’t just affect emotions—it hits the body and senses too. Heightened sensory load : After months without the constant noise, colors, and activity of a classroom, students may feel overstimulated. Sleep shift : Gone are the slower mornings of summer. Earlier wake-ups mean less rest, leaving kids biologically less equipped to focus, regulate, and learn. Why Regulation Matters More Than Obedience Parents and teachers often see dips in early performance—sloppy work, lower grades, or emotional meltdowns. But these aren’t signs of laziness or inability. They’re stress signals. Early bad grades ≠ inability to learn : Stress, not skill, is often the culprit. Learning requires regulation : A calm, safe child can absorb even challenging material. A dysregulated child, no matter how brilliant, will struggle. Obedience during an emotional storm sets kids up for failure. What they need first is calm, not correction. Tools for Parents: Helping Children Transition You can’t remove all the stress of back-to-school, but you can help cushion the landing. Build a gentle after-school pause Give your child time to snack, rest, or just breathe before diving into homework or activities. This “decompression zone” helps reset their system. Create safe spaces for feelings Encourage your child to share their worries, excitement, or frustrations. Practice listening without immediately solving. Sometimes being heard is the solution. Reframe setbacks Remind your child—and yourself—that early grades don’t define ability. With time and regulation, their strengths will show. Final Thought Back-to-school stress is real—but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With awareness, patience, and practical supports, parents can turn this season into a growth opportunity, teaching children how to manage change with resilience and confidence. September 8, 2025 By Joseph Montalvo 📍 Serving Connecticut and surrounding communities 📞 Call or message us today to schedule your first session

Signs You Might Benefit from Individual Therapy

By Joseph Montalvo • August 6, 2025
Therapy isn’t only for moments of crisis—it’s also for seasons of growth and self‑discovery. Here are 5 gentle signs you might benefit from individual therapy.